Well, I attended the bridal shower today so had the perfect opportunity to ask what was expected and approached the groom's sister who is also the maid of honor. She rolled her eyes and said (conspiratorially) "Everyone is asking and they made it really confusing." meaning the bride and groom's choice of words on the invitation. But riosamba hit the nail on the head because it's just their insurance policy that no one shows up for the wedding in jeans and workboots as one woman did for the shower today. Tuxes & long gowns not required, but there may be some. Not on us!
This probate case is totally criminal and it’s taken me many years to come to terms with all the greedy, selfish, abusive, theft, unreporting of assets ect…which my brothers did to my handicapped father and I when my mother died. They lied to the court about my relationship with my dad, they abused my dad for twenty years until they stole his rightful assets. They threatened him to sign papers that they wouldn’t let him read. They put drugs in my room and had my home raided, put drugs in my vehicle and in my room again and in my vehicle when pack8my to take father on vacation. I could never attend a hearing to speak the truth. I was not told of court hearings. They did not split inheritance equally as stated before the judge. Wrecked father’s home so the value decreased over half so they could buy it after putting father away. I can go on and on about what they’ve done. Stole jewelry and gave items to their families whom were not heirs. Took mine and my son’s jewelry my mother stored in her room. Took loans from bank then had dad pay out of his portion. Never collected or paid the debts both had narrowed from our mother. Forged father’s name on truck loan, never paid on loan yet made parents get second morgage so as not to lose home because he put parents house up for colatteral. I really want to make them pay for what they have done to my dad. Oh there is so much more that a book could be written. They still won’t provide me my dads whereabouts or any financial records. They are afraid that I could mess up dads will for them since I’m sure they’ll get everythi,g and me nothing. They’ve made him sign a health directive which is nothing that he wants. They’ve had him sign over property never letting him use it or even paying for its value. Oh I need to help my father desperately. Please help, I’m poor, yet my brother has quite his job, goes hunting & fishing around the . they should be in jail.